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((Hey all.

Tue, 06 Mar 2012 22:41:37 +1000

((Yeah, still on hiatus. I am so, so sorry but the computer situation hasn’t improved at ALL. I’m currently using my mother’s one which is slow and outdated, and probably wouldn’t be able to support sai. I hopefully should be getting a new one really soon and the moment I do I’m going to start working on some new answers! I haven’t forgotten this blog, I promise

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I recently came out to my closest friend about being ftm.. she was.. less than accepting of the idea and tried to play it off as a phase. Do you have any suggestions on how to cope or how to explain it to her? She's the first person I came out to and if this keeps happening I don't want to do it again..

Mon, 02 Jan 2012 23:29:00 +1000

oh wow jeez that really sucks anon im sorry about that

just prove to her that its not a phase, and tell her as your closest friend it would mean a lot to you if she could use the proper pronouns and your preferred name if youve picked out out/are changing it

and remind her that its not a choice for you to have been born like that

it can be a hard thing to put into words sometimes but saying “im a boy on the inside, in my head, even if im not on the outside” is simple enough

if she continues to refuse to use the proper name and pronouns, or tries to get you to change back then drop her

i know its hard to drop a friend like that but if shes a real friend shed be respecting your wishes and being supportive

and just remember not everyone is going to react like that

some people will react badly others will react well and others may be neutral, just make sure to come out in the safest of possible situations i suggest somewhere semi public so the person cant make a scene

its hard but in the end its going to be worth it

good luck dude

what kind of binder do you use? and do you have any recommended ones for larger chested guys? :) thanks Dave!!

Fri, 30 Dec 2011 13:23:00 +1000

most days i wear this one from lesloveboat it works pretty well for me

and its suitable for sports which is handy since i do a fair bit of running around and shit with bro

hes also made me a couple when we were sorta short on cash and couldnt buy any proper ones

and on the off days when im not binding to give my chest a bit of a break so i dont keel over and die or something i just wear a couple of sports bras since im small enough for that to work

i have a couple of forum buddies with fairly larger chests and the one i talk to more got this one from underworks

which is good since it works beautifull and sucks his hips in and stuff and if he wants to be even flatter he can just roll it up

hope this helps

Tag, you’re it! Here are the rules: Each tagged person must post ten things about themselves. You have to choose and tag ten people. Go to their blogs and tell them you tagged them. No tag backs :)

Fri, 30 Dec 2011 13:12:00 +1000

i know everyones dying for more tidbits about me what are the invasive questions not enough now or something

is your hunger for juicy gossip really that insatiable wait what am i saying

anyway

im about 5’4
i dye my hair a few shades darker than it actually is because fuck whiteblond hair seriously
i have cold blood like a lizard meaning i need to be warm all the time thats how lizards work right
sleep is for the weak
im a brony (ironically)
im strider and i can only count to six
im boss at whistling
i dont really like people i dont know and tolerate touching me
im not fat fuck you egbert im pleasingly lean
i cant cook for shit and set myself on fire one time when i tried

im too lazy to go tag ten people so egbert youre it

homestuckresources: Gore has now moved into the main Homestuck tag Just block “i-love-homestuck”...

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 18:53:24 +1000

homestuckresources:

Gore has now moved into the main Homestuck tag

Just block “i-love-homestuck” and the problem is fixed.

stupidhomestuckfans: guys, i know what’s going on. i know it...

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 18:45:01 +1000

stupidhomestuckfans:

guys, i know what’s going on.

i know it sucks. i know it’s vile and completely devoid of maturity, i know some of you are getting a good shock out of these images. (it’s what they were meant to do, after all.)

i just, can’t do anything about it???

i can’t make the twelve year old taggers stop, i can’t make the hypocritical shippers who don’t tag shove it up their ass, terrible as it may be i can’t really do anything and complaining to me about it is kind of useless.

however, i can provide you with what i hope is adequate brain bleach in the form of fucking cute baby animals and shit. copious fucking photosets of these adorable little motherfuckers.

i just don’t want anyone to get all fucked up over a dumb tumblr incident, okay? untrack the tags, wait it out, look at cute shit in the meantime.

smile!

and now something for those poor souls that probably looked after i said not to

btw just a heads up theres an asshole posting pictures of extremely gory things in some of the...

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 18:37:07 +1000

btw just a heads up

theres an asshole posting pictures of extremely gory things in some of the popular tags ie johndave stridercest johnkat there could be more idk

like pictures of mutilated dead bodies and stuff so if that kind of thing triggers you then

STAY THE FUCK OUT OF THOSE TAGS YO

this has been a public service announcement brought to you by dave strider

i dont know what to say im so flattered i wasnt expecting this...

Thu, 29 Dec 2011 14:13:50 +1000

i dont know what to say im so flattered i wasnt expecting this at all

should i have a speech prepared

yeah but in all seriousness thanks you guys youre all rad every single one of you rock i want to kiss you all

well not really you might have diseases or something

can we settle for an affectionate pat on the rump yes ok good

anyway down to business

thereve been even more computer troubles (more??? holy shit dave get a proper computer) and it wont even run sai now so

until this is fixed yould you guys mind if i reverted to the old way of answering and maybe did some text posts now and then

obligatory question marks??

yeah i did like when i was 12 haha and it lasted for… a...

Fri, 23 Dec 2011 12:20:06 +1000

yeah i did

like when i was 12 haha and it lasted for… a while actually i dont remember exactly how long

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holy fuck this is beautiful i cant handle all this swag its...

Wed, 21 Dec 2011 12:40:05 +1000

holy fuck this is beautiful

i cant handle all this swag its practically smothering me

i cant breathe gasping for air here like im a fish outta water

call aquatic 911

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((Computer troubles))

Sun, 18 Dec 2011 10:18:41 +1000

((You may have noticed my queue’s been empty for a couple of days now. I’ve been working on answers in the limited time I have lately but my computer decided to be an enormous douchefuck today and not work. Hopefully it will work later and I’ll be able to finish something. So sit tight my pretties~!))

[clickthrough] yeah naturally some people are automatically 100%...

Thu, 15 Dec 2011 12:15:06 +1000

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yeah naturally

some people are automatically 100% certain of it once they hear it and at first while i was pretty sure i kept thinking about it

what if it wasnt that what if it was something else

but then this guy off some forum i used to frequent had a talk to me and he helped a lot

the actual conversation is all a bit vague in my memory but the gist of it is still there

there was something familiar about him actually but i couldnt put my finger on it

i havent heard from him since in any case

that only happened ONE TIME and it wasnt even my fault i...

Wed, 14 Dec 2011 12:20:06 +1000

that only happened ONE TIME

and it wasnt even my fault

i usually have a policy of not hitting girls but i made an exception when i woke up later

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Tue, 13 Dec 2011 12:26:06 +1000

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Sun, 11 Dec 2011 12:05:06 +1000

its just the sweaters making me look dumpy i gotta keep warm...

Sat, 10 Dec 2011 12:01:05 +1000

its just the sweaters making me look dumpy

i gotta keep warm somehow its not like ive got any blubber protecting me like egbert does

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Fri, 09 Dec 2011 12:17:05 +1000